And that question is, what am I making harder than it needs to be?
Stop and think about that. What are you making harder than it needs to be?
Now we all have different areas of our lives. We have our work life. We have our home life. We have all sorts of areas where we’re meeting people and we’re doing different things. And are you making some of those things in your life that you hold important harder than they need to be?
If you are, you need to ask yourself three questions:
1. Is this the best way.
There’s a myriad of ways to do certain things to accomplish tasks, get things done. And if you’re at and you’re struggling with something, you know, seek some counsel, is this the best way don’t be an island under yourself, get people to help you.
That’s that’s why you’re, you’re working with people. If you’re a solopreneur, reach out to some people reach out to me. You can always find me here. I would love to help you if you’re having an issue, but find out if what you’re doing is the best way, because sometimes it’s not and you have to be willing to let it go. Because sometimes when you do it the way you want to do it and you find out there’s a better way, it’s really hard to let that go. Trust me of that.
2. Is there a system or some type of a tweak that I can employ to make the task that I’m doing easier.
If there’s something you’re doing at work, if there’s something you’re doing at home that you’re kind of having a hard time with, maybe there’s a better system.
I have gone through so many different day planners that it’s ridiculous, but I finally found one that works with my life. It works with my system. I’ve figured out a way to make one book work for me and I can have my notes. I can have my plans. I can have my calendar, everything that I need to keep me organized is in one place, but it took me years to find it. Don’t give up. If you try to find a better way, a better system, a better tool, a tweak don’t give up, keep searching until you find it.
3. Is, is there a resource that you can reach out to, or a book, or something that you can find to give you some more wisdom, to make better decisions on whatever it is that you’re doing.
That’s making it harder for yourself that you can get a coach. You can get someone to talk to a mentor, someone who can walk through the systems, because they’ve been there and done that you can read books on whatever it is you’re struggling with. There’s always a better way. You just have to go find it. And then you have to use the tools and resources that you find.
If you’re struggling, please don’t make things harder on yourself. Reach out to me. I would love to help you. I hope that this helps. I hope you ask your that question. What are you making more complicated, more difficult than it needs to be. And I hope you’re changing the path so that you can live an easier life.
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